Now I want to tell you that you MUST communicate with your lover and let him know when you are not enjoying it and when you are. Let him know what works for you and what does not. Never lie to a guy just to save his ego. And faking an orgasm is a false communication telling him that what he is doing is working when in fact it is NOT! Now the best way to do this is by telling him what you like rather than saying what you don’t. If he starts to make love to you and you keep saying “I don’t like that” or “That’s not right.” He is libel to just get up and say “Fuck it!” and walk out! Remember when a man is taking the time to try to please you it is a gift and if you reject his gift, it can be very insulting to him especially because sexual ability is a big part of a mans self image. Put yourself in his place. Think about how would you feel if someone rejected you sexually.